But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Q: I have a really hard time relaxing and enjoying myself when my boyfriend goes down on me.
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I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me. As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone. Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs, to give him a taste of his own medicine. But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like double the punishment. And how else does one get what one wants out of sex than by talking about it?
I give myself oral sex when I am alone
Gonorrhoea, chlamydia, genital herpes, genital warts and syphilis are just a few of the sexually transmitted infections that can spread through oral. Oral sex is also one of the most common ways to spread the sexually transmitted diseases HPV, which can raise the risk of throat cancer. If your partner has HPV and you give them oral sex, you can be at risk of the cells in your throat being attacked.
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